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I learned how much those words matter in places where lives were on the line. One of those moments came down to three seconds. I’ll tell you about it at the end.
Every post-match interview Gary O’Neil has given in Premier Managers Revealed 2026/27, collected in one place: the quotes, the score out of 12, the Identity level and the analysis, matchweek by matchweek. For the latest standings, see the Premier Managers Revealed league tables.
Matchweek 1
Ipswich Town 2 – 1 Sunderland
Saturday 22 August, Portman Road
Gary O’Neil — Ipswich Town (home)
9/12 · Identity level fed: Capability
“Pleased, I thought we played pretty well. The Premier League’s tough, as you saw, it takes everyone giving everything to get us over the line.”
“I thought we deserved to win probably on the balance of it. Some real good chances.”
“Really pleased, was a good performance and thankfully we managed to produce a little moment of quality at the end from a pressing phase to get us to three points, which gets us up and running.”
On whether he sensed the winner coming: “I don’t know if I felt like it was coming. I felt like we were still trying to get it.”
“We were cruising really at 1-0, not too much threat on the goal and, welcome back to the Premier League, someone smashes one in the top corner from 25 yards and it’s back to square one.”
“He’s a top talent, which was why we worked so hard to get him because he’s a number 10 that can produce unbelievable quality.”
“Emersonn was good, I thought. We’ve sort of thrown him in quite a lot.”
“I understand you guys will feel it in that way. For me, that was tough and that’s just one, and we need a good few more than one.”
O’Neil had just won on the opening day and he refused the celebration. He calls the win tough, points out that it is only one, and says Ipswich need a good few more than that. The equaliser is handled well too. A twenty-five yard strike is treated as the sort of thing the Premier League does to you rather than a failing to dwell on. He names quality where it exists, calling his number ten a top talent who produces. The gap is the week ahead. Beyond needing more wins, his players are not given anything specific to work on.
Source: Those Were The Days (TWTD), “O’Neil: I Thought We Deserved to Win” — twtd.co.uk
Matchweek 2
Manchester United 5 – 2 Ipswich Town
Sunday 30 August, Old Trafford
Gary O’Neil – Ipswich Town (away)
8/12 · Identity level fed: Safety
Really unlucky to be 2-1 down, really unlucky – two of the most unlucky goals you will see, but then not good enough to get back into it. We got punished by a very good side. To beat Manchester United at Old Trafford you need the moments to go in your favour and they didn’t. Rules can go against you, or a deflection, there are lots of things that can happen in a game that are beyond your control.
It is a complicated rule – handball if it’s the goal scorer but not if it takes a deflection and was heading off the target. I think that is tough for a referee. But no problem. I’m not here to moan about refs.
We get no points, at Old Trafford a lot of people leave with no points but we leave with an understanding of where to get better. We have three points from two tough games. A good start for us. It is the Premier League, the lads understand there will be highs and lows.
We don’t want there to be too many lows but the lads are fine in there. They understand.
O’Neil calls the two decisive goals unlucky and spends much of the answer on moments beyond Ipswich’s control. He does stop himself from blaming the referee, credits Manchester United and says the team leave with an understanding of where to improve. The setback is Fleeting and Other, which protects Safety, but he names no clear SQA and gives the players no usable next action. They hear why the result happened more clearly than what they can do about it.
Source: Sky Sports post-match interview, source page
Matchweek 3
Ipswich Town 0–2 Liverpool
Portman Road · Isak 6′, 9′
Gary O’Neil (Ipswich Town)
Source: BBC Sport post-match interview, Portman Road, 4 September 2026 (transcript supplied)
Q: Commiserations. That cost you ten minutes in the end at the start of the game.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Two mistakes, I guess, and punished by some world-class players. But I thought we were excellent, unbelievably proud of the group. I thought probably the better side from that moment on. I think we had more shots, like some really good stuff. And it was a test, of course. You know, I spoke a bit about responding to setbacks at United and how we sort of lost our way, and if that was ever going to be tested, it was straight away, 2-0 down at home to Liverpool. And to respond the way they did, to fight back, to get control of the game was a very big effort from them. So very proud of what we produced. Of course, it doesn’t get us any points, but that’s the Premier League. You don’t always get points when you play well. But no, the group’s in a very good spot. I think there were some excellent performances out there, new players showing they had a good understanding of what we do, mentality to never stop. So no, very good, very pleased with them. Just disappointed that we obviously were 2-0 down so early.
Q: Yeah, for you especially, it was like a nearly but not quite situation. You got into so many good positions, balls flashed across the face, just that little final pass decision. You were so close to getting off the mark, weren’t you? But just those little tiny details costing.
Yeah, I think you’re up against world-class players, so if your defenders step out of line a fraction, you get punished. Their defenders make really good decisions when we get into dangerous situations and snuff things out and it becomes nothing. But tactically, there was no problem for us in the game, really, at all. Defended low well, defended high well, caused them loads of problems with the ball, like some excellent stuff. You don’t see many teams able to cut through an Andoni Iraola team like that. So to be able to play through them the way we did was impressive. So all the work put us in a really good spot. Unfortunately, it’s sport, and you can’t control everything. Sometimes things happen. We made a couple of mistakes that have meant we don’t leave with anything apart from a real belief. I think we take belief from today, I do especially, to see the group performing that way, and I’m really confident that we can move on.
Q: With so many signings as well, is this going to be a development process for a number of weeks, do you think?
I don’t want it to be. I don’t see any reason why we can’t be ready. I’m working unbelievably hard with the players. I didn’t see an understanding issue out there. I thought Palacios comes in after a few days of training with us and understood everything we do. Abdul Otara comes off the bench, it’s the same. Just a couple… It’s a ruthless league, especially when you play the top teams. So like I say, a soft first goal, an unbelievable pass and strike from them, to be fair, but a soft first goal, and then a little mistake in the back line for the second one. But yeah, apart from that, like toe to toe with Liverpool, fans were right with us, which is important. You can see at the end, really good reception for the players because we gave everything there and we come up a bit short, but now we’re ready to go again next week.
12/12 · Identity level fed: Capability & Esteem
O’Neil contains the loss inside two early mistakes against world-class players, then spends the interview describing what his team did well. Their response, fight, control, understanding and refusal to stop are credible SQAs, supported by what happened on the pitch. The mistakes are Narrow and Fleeting, while the team’s ability is treated as Lasting. They leave with belief and a clear instruction to be ready again next week.
Matchweek 4
Crystal Palace 2–3 Ipswich Town
Gary O’Neil, Ipswich Town: 12/12
“We found a way to win. We deserved to win as well.”
O’Neil praises Ipswich’s response and explains how they kept looking for a winner. He gives the players credit for the result while identifying loose passes, mistakes in their shape and missed chances. Winning gives him a good opportunity to address those details without damaging confidence.
The lessons sit alongside evidence of what the team did well. The players can believe in their ability to score and respond to setbacks, while knowing what needs improving. Recovery and preparation for Arsenal and Everton give them an immediate next step.
Breakdown: Towards 2 · SQAs 2 · Adversity 2 · Identity 2 · Path 2 · Good Winner* 2
Source: post-match press conference
Matchweek 5
Everton 1–0 Ipswich Town
Gary O’Neil, Ipswich Town: 12/12
“I thought we were unfortunate, to be honest, to leave with nothing. I thought we gave a lot. We looked a threat, conceded a very unfortunate goal, of course. I thought we were probably the better side, and unfortunately we go home with nothing, but we go home with more belief that we can be very competitive at the level.”
“I think I can understand it being a yellow card. He will learn from it. As I say, 22 I think he is, young player. He will learn a lot from that.”
“I thought we were excellent with ten.”
O’Neil protects belief after defeat by making the performance evidence that Ipswich can compete in the Premier League. Threat, effort and the ten-man response are all banked as strengths.
The red card becomes a lesson for a young player rather than a character judgement. O’Neil gives his team belief, reminds them how well they competed and gives a young player a useful way to understand his mistake. He scores 12 because language this encouraging is much harder after defeat.
Breakdown: Towards 2 · SQAs 2 · Adversity 2 · Identity 2 · Path 2 · Good Loser* 2
Source: BBC Sport post-match interview.
Matchweek 6
Ipswich Town 2–1 Fulham
Saturday 10 October 2026, Portman Road, Ipswich.
Gary O’Neil, Ipswich Town: 12/12
Identity level: Capability and Purpose.
I think off the result, proud of the players, proud of the way we finished the game, showed exactly what they are really — together, hard-working, have quality, never going to stop, just always going to keep going,
We’re always trying to win, we’ve not drawn a game yet. Wins are big. It’s just trying to work harder with the players. We want to try and win, but we want to try and win from a calm, controlled, tactical set-up that we’ve worked on all week. We don’t want that last 10 minutes to just become random because we’re having big success in the game by sticking to the game plan.
But I guess, once the ref hasn’t given it, it then needs to be obvious for VAR to overturn it. So once the ref hasn’t given it, then the chances of it being overturned diminish. I’m told it should have been, but thankfully it means nothing. We take the three points, we move forward.
Showed exactly what they are really, and then five things in a row: together, hard-working, have quality, never going to stop, always going to keep going. They’re all in the present tense and they all belong to the players. That’s as clear a set of SQAs as you’ll hear. The second answer is the one that gets him twelve. Ipswich are a goal down at home with seventy minutes gone and the crowd wanting something, and what he gives them is the plan they worked on all week and a warning that the last ten minutes mustn’t go random. He was told he should have had a penalty and says it means nothing, we move forward, so nobody is left with a grudge.
Breakdown: Towards 2 · SQAs 2 · Adversity 2 · Identity 2 · Path 2 · Good Winner* 2 · 12/12
Source: TWTD.
Matchweek 7
Manchester City 3 – 2 Ipswich Town
Saturday 17 October 2026, 3pm, Etihad Stadium.
Gary O’Neil, Ipswich Town
10/12. Identity level: Belonging and Capability.
“Really disappointed. I did believe we could take points. I’m proud of what the players gave. It takes a lot to come here and keep yourself in the game. This is an incredible group, they gave everything for 102 minutes. It’s a privilege to represent them.”
“The second goal against us is what really annoys me. We’d worked on that a lot. And then maybe some quality in the final third, we weren’t quite good enough in those moments. It just meant we fell a bit short. We’ve still shown everyone we can compete.”
“No. It’s just us against City. Trying to win. Bananas or no bananas. It makes no difference to me.”
Ipswich lose 3-2 at the Etihad and O’Neil’s first instinct is to protect the group. An incredible group, they gave everything for 102 minutes, it’s a privilege to represent them: specific, theirs, and nothing to do with the scoreline. He owns the controllable bit too, the second goal we’d worked on a lot. Bananas or no bananas is the Identity line. Nothing about the occasion changes how they go about it. Adversity drops to 1, because maybe some quality in the final third, we weren’t quite good enough sounds like something the squad hasn’t got rather than something they missed on the day. That’s Lasting, and it undoes the other half. Path is 1 as well. He names the failing without saying what changes.
Source: Sky Sports.
Matchweek 8
Ipswich Town 1 – 1 Nottingham Forest
Friday 23 October 2026, 8.00pm, Portman Road.
Gary O’Neil, Ipswich Town
Score: 12/12. Identity level: Belonging and Capability.
I thought Nottingham Forest were the side that were sort of pushing towards the end. That didn’t mean that we had stopped and rolled over. We still created a few moments that could have gone our way. We wanted to try and make it a football match. we wanted to try and play conditions were tough as well we had some good moments where we did get control but I felt we lost the ball too many times in really dangerous areas trying to play, trying to overplay at times so in that second half I took the decision to take less risk to be more direct to see if we could win the game in a different way dig in fight second balls I just felt like lesser of two evils I felt if we kept trying to play our way through them with the conditions and maybe we weren’t on our top flow tonight with the ball like people treading on it and missing simple passes in the middle of the pitch Nottingham Forest live for those moments so um we decided to avert risk a little bit go a bit more direct and that that does that that does help nottingham forest as well they’re very very good at that but it did it did mean that we started to concede less big chances it did it just meant that we had to suffer a little bit longer a little bit more um but proud of the players because they stuck together they thought we could have still won it at the end some big moments and Clark had a great chance and they’re a good side Nottingham Forest so it’s the Premier League everyone you face especially the teams that have been in it for seven years or so they’ve got some top top players and we’re trying to bridge that gap so tonight we had to sort of abort plan A a little bit and we had to dig in and we had to fight which is fine there’s more than one way to win a game
No, it had been discussed, the wind. It was difficult to pick out there, the wind. The flags above the stadium were going one way, the feeling inside the stadium was going the other. So it was tough, but it was a thing. You heard the crowd a few times when the ball went up in the air and started moving. around everywhere I think we ended up into the wind both halves funnily enough but yeah one of those things you know you try and get those little decisions right we spoke to Doz about it we spoke to Waltz about it they go off their field really and Waltz was in goal in the warm-up and felt that he was going to be better off at the other end to go 1-0 down to a team like that and to find a way back is credit to the not easy that against a team as good as they are defend as well as they are don’t concede chances so really pleased really pleased I think we can play better of course we can but if we think we’re going to play top football for 38 games in this league and be dominant and in control we’re not we’re going to have to fight and scrap sometimes and I’m really proud of how they did that today
I’ve only watched it live to be honest so I’ll give you my honest opinion I don’t know how accurate it’s going to be because I’m a long way away uh it was late looked like well he definitely missed the ball and he made some contact with McAtee um so it is a foul I think it is a foul um I think Leif Davis is in a good position to be fair and he’s quick and he’s got the momentum so I think it would have been a tough call to say that that was a definite clear goal scoring opportunity for McAtee I think Leif Davis deals with the situation I think his touch goes slightly heavy and away from goal which gives Leif a chance as well so I think having watched it once that it was a pretty good decision in the end i think they did some good work um but yeah i don’t know how accurate that is i’m watching it from a long way away with a million things going on so i’m sure your guys will have a better opinion than me on it a more accurate one but i think they did a decent job of it and um it can go your way it can go against you so um we’ve had some harsh ones go against us this year so when they go for you you take them you move on
yeah yeah it’s decent it’s decent um we’ve got a lot of work to do because you just see today not, Nottingham Forest supposedly down the bottom of what they are down the bottom of the table at the moment they won’t be, come the end and you see how tough that is at home um so this league will will constantly test you you’ll go away to man city and after scrap and defend for ages and then you’ll come home to Nottingham Forest and they’ll keep putting long balls on top of you in the pouring rain and wind it will constantly test you so we haven’t done anything yet really proud of what the players are doing but we have to keep going we have a good little prep time now going into Hull next week which will be equally tough and made a great start themselves But proud of the players, proud of the players. I think it’s one that we can learn from as well.
O’Neil starts with the thing he could control. They kept giving the ball away in dangerous areas while trying to play through Forest, so he took the risk out and went more direct.
The rest he puts down to the conditions and Forest’s quality, and he keeps the problem to tonight rather than anything wrong with the squad.
What he sets against that is togetherness, and he explains why. They stuck together and found a way back from a goal down.
He is honest that they will not control every game in this league, so they will have to fight and scrap at times. In saying this he treats the tough nights as something that will pass, while pointing to the lasting quality they have shown in being able to dig in and fight when they need to. Hull next week is where that gets tested.
Source: BBC Sport match report.
Matchweek 9
Hull City 2 – 2 Ipswich Town
Saturday 31 October 2026, 3.00pm, MKM Stadium, Hull.
Gary O’Neil, Ipswich Town
Score: 11/12. Identity level: Esteem & Capability.
Gary, a point on the road in the Premier League is always a good one, but should it have been three in your opinion?
Yeah, would have, yeah, I thought so. We were the better side, I thought we should have punished them more in the first half. We’d give them two goals, two goals that we shouldn’t really concede, but then we respond unbelievably well again. So, disappointed that the goals are the only real part. I think there was another chance Worts made a decent save from. But just a couple of little errors for goals, which has ended up costing us. But in terms of the team coming away from home, dominating the game, showing character, defending, attacking well, I thought they were very good, the lads today.
We spoke about it pre-match, you knew what to expect, you were going to have a lot of the possession. What’s the sort of coaching or instructions to the team? Is it just keep going, you’ve got so much of the ball, but you’ve got to keep pushing forward to try and hurt them?
We knew they’d change, they were better second half than they were in the first, but they still weren’t better than us. They stepped on a bit, they had no choice. I thought we were the better team in both halves, which is why you can probably tell with my tone, it’s a point on the road and it’s a good performance. I’ve watched a lot of their games and not many teams are as good with the ball as we were. We were excellent with the ball, caused them so many problems in their shape. I want it to earn the lads three points. Unfortunately, it’s only earned us one, but it is a point on the road in the Premier League and we respect that because it’s tough to go away from home. It keeps us ticking, keeps us moving forward and we take the positives from it, take our learnings from the goals and get ourselves ready for Bournemouth next week.
You talk about the goals were preventable. Let me take the first one, it just seemed a bit bizarre. What was the explanation from the defenders?
I won’t go into detail because that’s more for the lads. I think they were excellent, the boys, and mistakes will happen, I make them. They happen a lot. It’s just unfortunate that probably the only two errors we made, probably all the two biggest ones, led to goals. We didn’t quite get away with one and no one managed to rescue it. So, yeah, I didn’t like either of the goals. I thought the second goal even is preventable. But that is the game. That is the game. It’s the Premier League. Hull have found a way to do that against most teams. They score a crazy goal away at Chelsea that is unbelievably preventable as well. So, yeah, congratulations to them on their fight back. They managed to get a point. But really pleased with where my team’s at after that today. I think we were the dominant side away from home in the Premier League, which takes some doing.
And finally, just that ability late on in games. Obviously, Julio Enciso scores a great goal. But Dyson Mider had chances. Jack Clarke, again, that belief to keep pushing from your team.
Yeah, the subs helped us. They did. Again, they made a difference. And it’s tough, you know, to have been in control and to have been the better side and find yourself 2-1 down with a place bouncing. I’ve been involved in many a dressing room that would just walk out of here with a 2-1 loss and not threaten the goal again. I think we managed to threaten the goal six or seven times from that moment. So, yeah, they’ve got some character, the lads. Just need to keep helping them. We need to just keep… The level is really high. Hull are a good side, regardless of what division they were in last year. Very good side. And I’m really pleased with how we did against them. I’m really pleased with him. Yeah. Thank you.
Two points dropped from two errors, and O’Neil puts the errors where they can do the least damage. He won’t say who, because that’s more for the lads. He says mistakes will happen and that he makes them a lot himself. And he notes Hull have done this to most teams, including a crazy goal at Chelsea, so being punished by them isn’t a judgement on Ipswich. Other, Narrow, and nothing a player takes home.
The best thing in the interview is the comparison he draws. He has been in dressing rooms that would have gone 2-1 down in a bouncing away ground and not threatened the goal again, and his side threatened it six or seven times. That makes character an SQA they have demonstrated rather than one he hopes for. What he leaves them without is the fix. Take our learnings from the goals and get ready for Bournemouth is a direction with no content in it.
Source: Press Association.
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