Pressure Test: Aryna Sabalenka and the Battle for Control of Her Mind
Why the world’s best player can look unbeatable one week and unravel the next.
At the 2026 Roland Garros, Aryna Sabalenka was in complete control. She had won the first set 6-3, broken Diana Shnaider twice in the second, and led 4-1. The match was, to all appearances, over. Then she lost the next ten games.
The final score was 3-6, 7-5, 6-0. Shnaider, ranked 25th in the world, had barely been a presence for the first hour. In the press conference afterwards, Sabalenka said:
“No thoughts, no emotions, just want to quit tennis right now.”
And, in that moment, she meant every word of it.
That collapse is worth examining carefully, because the pattern behind it has been consistent enough to be more than a bad day or poor tactics.
Aryna Sabalenka is world number one. She has been for well over a year. She has four Grand Slam titles. She is, by almost any measure, the best women’s tennis player on the planet right now. But it seems to me that she has a problem at Identity level that no amount of talent can fix.
To understand it, you have to go back to a press conference in New York, in September 2025, on the night she had just won her second consecutive US Open title.
She had spent time in Mykonos between the French Open and the US Open, reflecting on the two finals she had lost earlier that year, against Madison Keys at the Australian Open and Coco Gauff at Roland Garros, and she had worked out what had gone wrong.
“I thought that if I made it to the final, it means that I’m going to win it. I sort of didn’t expect players to come out there and to fight, I thought that everything gonna go easily my way, which was completely wrong mindset.”
That is one of the most revealing pieces of self-diagnosis any elite athlete has put on the record, and it points you toward the source of the problem. She had been so fused with the Outcome, the Grand Slam title, the confirmation that she was the best, that she had not genuinely prepared for an opponent who would compete.
She was world number one. Of course she was going to win the final. The belief didn’t merely seem true; it felt inevitable.
It was just, as she said herself, completely wrong.
Sabalenka Can’t Imagine Losing
In the 7 Skills framework, Identity Quotient, IDQ, measures how stable a person’s Identity is under pressure. My read of Sabalenka is this. Her belief in her own Capability was so strong that she simply could not imagine losing.
Her status as a winner, confirmed by the biggest prizes in the sport, is the foundation for her sense of self-worth. Winning Grand Slams confirms that status, and that confirmation is what her attention is trained upon.
So when a match started to slip, all her attention went to the prize that was moving out of reach rather than to the strengths and qualities that were still more than enough to compete. She panicked as the title slipped away, and with it her own sense of value as a person. She was not equipped to turn the momentum back her way.
The pattern had been visible long before the Mykonos breakthrough. After losing the French Open 2025 final to Gauff, Sabalenka told the press that Gauff had won:
“not because she played incredible, just because I made all of those mistakes.”
She later wrote to Gauff to apologise, calling the comment “completely unprofessional” and saying she had let her emotions get the better of her.
The comment reveals something important, though. Her mind was refusing to accept a direct contradiction to her sense of Capability. To acknowledge that Gauff had simply been better would be to accept that her own Capability had, at least on that day, fallen short.
So the explanation shifted: the errors were hers, yes, but the implication was clear. She was still the better player.
In Mykonos, while reading The Magic Shop by James R. Doty, she thought she had found her way to something more stable.
Sabalenka went into the 2025 US Open final against Amanda Anisimova with a new plan.
“Going into this final, I decided for myself that I’m gonna control my emotions. So my mindset was just going out there, fight for every point.”
That phrase is important because it describes a shift in Attention Direction. Instead of directing her attention at the ultimate Outcome, the title, the confirmation of who she was, she directed it at the smallest possible Outcome: the next point.
The Stops and Shots of the match, rather than the prize at the end of it. And that shift changes the psychology considerably, because when you lose a point or concede a break of serve, the prize does not feel as though it is slipping away. Your attention is on the next point. Her sense of Capability is not being measured against the scoreboard on every exchange.
During the final, Anisimova broke back in the first set, and again at 5-4 in the second. These were the moments, in the earlier finals that year, where Sabalenka had begun to unravel. She described what happened:
“There was like two moments where I was really close to lose control. But at that moment, I told myself ‘no, it’s not going to happen, it’s absolutely okay’. You expect in the final that the player is gonna fight back and will do her best to get the win. So I was just trying to focus one step at a time.”
She won 6-3, 7-6. She had held it together.
She also said something that night about the years she had spent working with a psychologist. She had eventually stopped the sessions when she realised she was using them to avoid something uncomfortable:
“I realized that I was relying on her so much. I thought that she has to fix me. And so I wasn’t really taking responsibility over my actions. So at some point I decided, okay, I have to take responsibility and I have to figure it by myself. And I think it actually worked really well.”
She had found something real. A shift in Attention Direction that kept her stable by removing the constant comparison between each moment and the big Outcome waiting at the end of it. She seemed to have crossed the gap.
Then 2026 Came.
The Australian Open final in January. Sabalenka faced Rybakina, led 3-0 in the final set, and lost.
Then Roland Garros. A double break at 4-1 in the second set. Ten consecutive games lost. “I guess mentally I got into a very deep, dark hole over there, and I just couldn’t get back mentally on track.”
And then that press conference line again: “Just want to quit tennis right now.” It is easy to read that as frustration or fatigue, but it makes more sense through the lens of Capability.
Her sense of what she could do, and therefore her self-worth, had just been so thoroughly and publicly dismantled that the instinct was to remove herself from the scrutiny entirely.
Then Berlin, her first grass-court tournament before Wimbledon. She reached the final and lost the deciding set to Pegula 0-6.
Boris Becker watched all of this and said:
“It’s not her backhand, not her forehand: it’s her inner stability, her mentality. She’s always emotionally on the edge, sometimes over the edge. That’s a very clear weakness of Sabalenka’s.”
Becker has identified the symptoms. My own reading goes a step further and asks what causes those symptoms.
The 0-6 third sets are what happen when the big Outcome starts to slip and she sees the prize moving out of her reach. Her Attention Direction fixes on what she is about to lose, the prize, the confirmation of her self-esteem, and the prospect of losing it crowds out everything else.
She stops fighting for the next point and starts trying to rescue something that feels further away with every point. The skill is still there, but panic takes over.
Patrick McEnroe, John’s brother and fellow tennis commentator, previewing Wimbledon, called those consecutive 6-0 third sets:
“very shocking, especially for a player with her kind of firepower.”
In Berlin, at her first press conference since Paris, Sabalenka said she had called her psychologist again. The one she had said, in New York, that she no longer needed. She also said:
“I’m just trying to dig deep in my brain, which is probably not a good idea. But let’s see where it’s going to lead me.”
The Mykonos insight was right. The application of it came apart under pressure in 2026. The searching is genuine, and the direction is right.
Which Sabalenka Turns Up at Wimbledon 2026?
The one who went into the US Open 2025 final having shifted her Attention Direction away from the prize and onto the next point. The one who held at 5-4 in the second set when Anisimova broke back and the crowd roared, and told herself it was absolutely okay, that she expected this, there was only the next point to play. That Sabalenka can win Wimbledon.
Or the one who had a double break against the world number 25 and lost ten consecutive games. The one whose sense of her own worth is so dependent on winning the biggest prizes that any sign of losing focuses her Attention Direction on that loss and on her own inherent sense of worth, and from there the collapse is fast.
My theory is that the Attention Direction shift she found in Mykonos is genuinely useful but is working against her Identity, a tidal force that keeps pulling her back. The prize is still what confirms her status.
Until that changes, the shift in Attention Direction will remain something she has to force against her own nature, requiring real effort of will every time. As the pressure rises, swimming against the tide gets harder.
Address the Capability dominance within her Identity and the Attention Direction shift becomes natural. Leave it untouched, and she will keep fighting the tide.
Sabalenka said in Berlin that she feels like she is always searching, and that as long as you are open to something new, “it’s definitely going to lead you somewhere.” She is the best player in the world and, at that precise moment, genuinely uncertain whether the search has got her where she needs to be.
Perhaps She’s Found What She Was Looking For
After her second-round victory over McCartney Kessler, Sabalenka was asked what she had taken from Rafael Nadal’s recent documentary.
Her answer immediately caught my attention.
“Whenever things are going wrong, I remind myself that the only thing you can control is your focus and motivation… I’m willing to focus point by point—not going too far into the future or staying too much in the past.”
Those are significant words because they’re evidence of a different way of thinking.
It shows a shift away from the prize, her capability and Identity, and onto the next point, the next Stops and Shots Outcome.
Perhaps she’s finally found what she was looking for.
Wimbledon may yet tell us.
What do you think?
Have I made the case, or do you think there’s another root cause for Sabalenka’s inconsistency under pressure?
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